Alive and Well and Active

Okay, calm down everyone. There's no need to send me hundreds and hundreds of urgent emails at 3 in the morning (your time, not mine) pleading for me to put up another blog post. I know it's been a little while since I've posted on here, but come on, be reasonable!


Well, it's not exactly true that I've received hundreds of emails asking for more blog posts. Come to think of it, I haven't received one such email. Still, I'd like to think that there are at least a few frequent readers out there, and to those members of my audience, I apologize for the two weeks that have gone by since my last post. One of the conundrums not only of blog-writing but of writing in general is that it's an act done in solitude which concerns the world at large. The man who stays in his room writing all day won't have much to say, and the man who constantly experiences the vastness of life will never settle down and write. For someone in a foreign country for five short months that are already flying by, I am face to face with this conundrum perhaps for the first time. My blog posts have become less frequent, and so have my journal entries. I've integrated to one degree or another into a new culture, a new society, with new people to meet and new places to visit and new sights to see. If some time passes between my blog posts, then, don't worry. You can pretty safely bet that it's because I'm experiencing life in Europe, life in Montpellier -- and how much richer my blog posts will be because of that!


So what have I been experiencing? Here's my Top 5 experiences of the past several weeks, not really in any particular order:

5. Sports. I've been playing basketball a couple times a week with some people that live in Vert Bois, my dorm community. The founding fathers of these pick-up games were Parham, an American who's become one of my better friends here, and Bertrand and Sylvain, two guys from Cameroon. Parham played for a year at his college, and he's an absolute powerhouse, often driving to the hoop against three defenders. Bertrand is also good and plays quite physically. It seems like every time we play something bad happens to Bertrand. The first time, his watch broke; the second time, his shoes started coming apart. There was one day he got elbowed three times in the face, got a finger in his eye, got hit in the stomach, and to top it off, after we were done playing an errant ball landed square on his head. We all felt bad for him yet couldn't help but laugh at his unlikely misfortune.


In addition to basketball, I've also been playing Frisbee. As strange as it may sound, there's actually an Ultimate class here at the university. Apparently students have something called an "Option," kind of like an elective. A French student told me that for l'Option, they can choose between a foreign language class and a sports class. That's quite the option. Anyway, I go to the class to play, but I'm not taking it for credit. Ultimate is worlds more popular in the US than it is in France. When I tell people I play Ultimate, they usually have no idea what I'm saying, and it's not because of my accent. However, there are some decent players here, and in fact, we are going to play in France's national university tournament in Lyon in a few weeks. The university is paying for our lodging and food for two days; all we have to pay for is gas money. So I guess I'm a sponsored Ultimate player in France. Not bad.

4. People of the world. I believe I've already mentioned on my blog that Montpellier is a diverse city. While I realized this the first week I moved here, I still marvel at how many different responses I get when I ask people where they're from. The other night we had a potluck sort of dinner in my dorm, a very frequent event. We probably packed over twenty people into a kitchen with no opening windows, a social and sweaty arrangement. As usual, there were people from all sorts of countries there. In this picture are (from left to right) Bertrand the Baller from Cameroon, Rachel from Manhattan, Kansas, a French girl with a weird name I can't remember, Karien from Louisiana, and Constanza (Sp?) from Italy.








Here we have Parham making a goofy face (as he often does). I won't name everyone in the background, but there is another American, some British folks, my friend Katarina from Slovakia, a French girl, some Italians, an Iranian, and maybe my friend Anna from Mexico hiding behind Parham.

As I'm typing this, I hope it doesn't seem that I'm trying to flaunt this diversity, like the ethnic equivalent of name-dropping. It's simply delightful to know people from such diverse backgrounds, and equally delightful to be unified with all of them through the French language. And another plus is that the Italians usually do the cooking for everyone. That night Lucas made some delicious rice dish with slices of fried zucchini. Delicious!



3. Conversation. I actually feel like a decent conversationalist in French now. The typical conversation with a new acquaintance covers name, country or city of origin, if he or she is a student, year in school, mutual friends, what he or she is doing later that night, and an exchange of phone numbers. Other than exchanging phone numbers -- which is really quite common here for some reason, even with people you might not intend to call -- these are generally the same components of basic English conversation in the US. I encounter and re-encounter these same topics almost daily, yet I continue to delight in them for the mere fact that they're in French. I'm actually speaking to people in French! Sometimes I realize mid-conversation how cool that is, that years of mostly theoretical learning has become entirely practical. And I do have more significant conversations than mere chit-chat. Last weekend, for instance, I went to a house party with my friend Anthony, and I talked to the same two girls until four in the morning. By that point I was about ready to die of exhaustion, but it was certainly worth the effort and lack of sleep.


2. Funky Musak. A few nights ago we went to l'Antirouille, a bar/music venue mostly known for reggae. The first night we got there really late and missed the main act, but we stuck around and danced to the DJ's music. The next night, though, we made it for most of the show. It was a fundraiser concert for Haiti, and it featured hip-hop, reggae, folk, funk, and rock. The band in these pictures was from Senegal, and the guy on bongos was out of his mind.

Last night we went to a bar called La Pleine Lune (Full Moon) where there is a gypsy jazz night every Sunday. Gypsy jazz sounds to me like a mix between swing and Spanish or latin music. The instrumentation was bass, electric guitar (with a rather acoustic sound, though), an acoustic guitar, and a violin. Apparently some of the musicians actually are gypsies, and you can see them playing in the downtown center square sometimes. It's been fun discovering the musical side of Montpellier. I found out last night that The Cranberries are coming to town, and I know that there is an upcoming performance of Carl Orff's Carmina Burana at the opera house.



1. God. If it's not obvious, I feel much more comfortable and settled now than I did the first few weeks in France. As I alluded to earlier in this post, the turbulence of the first leg of my trip prompted a rather prolific amount of writing on my part. What's more, it prompted me to lean on God more than perhaps ever in my life. Every moment of those first weeks felt like a lesson in humility and trust, as if I was walking in utter darkness and yet could be totally sure of my steps because I knew who was with me. I have the impression now that that darkness has lifted. I do wonder, though, if it is anything more than an impression, an illusion, this restored self-confidence. I think we are wholly dependent on the Lord every single second of our lives, even if we feel in control most of the time. I believed that -- at least theoretically -- before I came to Montpellier, and I believe it more strongly now.


Yet the illusion of control is often quite convincing. Now that I know the city better, now that my French is improving, now that I know where to go to church, where to get my groceries, how to access the school intranet, now that I have contacts in my cell phone and euros in my French bank account; it seems as if I can loosen my grip on the Lord's cloak, that I can stop clinging. On the one hand I am thankful for some stability; on the other hand I am wary of trusting myself. And even as my life here has settled a bit, the Lord has continued to bless me on a daily basis. Basketball with Bertrand, friends from all over the world, legitimate French conversations, great live music -- these highlights didn't start with me or my will. Even if I don't feel the need for God as strongly as I did several weeks ago, I am no less sure of His presence and His goodness.


In just over five hours I'll be leaving to catch a bus to Barcelona. I've never been to Spain, and I hardly speak a word of Spanish; maybe I will feel once again how small and desperately dependent I am. Whatever happens there, though, count on one thing -- our Constant -- and expect some more stories on this blog once I get back. My love to all of you.